Our baby comes into this world after we carry it for 9 months inside us and after that we have it next to us. We have to deal with the thoughts that have surrounded us all these pregnancy months and those that come from the first second we faced this little miracle. We find our self thinking about things we never had to before.
Personal was overwhelmed by constant barrage of thoughts. Would be my baby Healthy, can be to hidden a monster inside me, will be beautiful, will be born well, is a Birth is so difficult and many similar thoughts..
Now comes the time to take the first and most significant decisions to make in your child’s life. To choose the godparents who will be our companions in this journey of life.
It is a decision that seems easy, but it is not.
It is no coincidence that the godparents are considered spiritual parents. So before you choose a godfather for your child, think of who your environment is so close to you that if something happened to you your child have someone to really be care (your parents are excluded). The godparent must be a person from the friendly or family environment that you feel loves you very much and how he will love your child alike.
Do not choose a person just because you have a job or some other benefit. These relationships do not hold. We have certainly seen examples in in our environment, after a few years we simply lost from our child’s life, leaving only a void and questions that we will not know how to answer.
Find out from yourself if he / she loves children from the very first time that he or she will come in contact with your angel, the amount of time he / she will devote to and what is the most important thing that your child is reacting with him / her.
It is true that, very often, we tend to feel bound by a bunch of types, feelings, promises given in relaxed moments, traditions on the way to the choice of the person who will baptize our child. All these are within the program, but they are not a priority, while the role of the godfather is to do with the child.
Tips: Make a list of the conditions you think a godparent must have
